Anxiety is one of those disabilities/disorders that can be easily brushed off by others. When we were growing up, my younger sister had a severe anxiety disorder that went undiagnosed because the adults in her life didn’t believe that anxiety was a real thing. It was something you were just supposed to get over. There was no understanding about the gravity of the disorder nor an understanding of the comorbidities that often come with it.

If you are advocating for your child you’ve probably had moments where the process feels exhausting. You’ve likely spent hours researching, asking questions, and trying to understand what your child needs.

When one of our kids was in early elementary school the drop off and pick up line became a source of daily stress. In the morning there would be complaints about not feeling well or other complaints that indicated nerves. After reassurance, my child would dutifully gather their things and go into the school and I could breathe for a moment.

Parenting is as beautiful as it is challenging. There are moments where you’re in awe of the wonderful little humans the Lord entrusted you with and there are moments where your frustration and worry take over and you just wish that little humans came with a manual. It’s those moments–especially when your child has an invisible learning difference or disability that can feel particularly lonely.

Learn 5 signs your child may be struggling with executive functioning, including organization, task initiation, and emotional regulation—plus practical ways parents can help.